Ever got to know about the pursuit of loneliness? Lonely hours in our life can lighten our souls, like shooting stars in the sky, helping us to realize or have a better understanding of our self-goals. I am quite sure that in today’s rapidly expanding and moving world, none will be having alone-time to know how it feels to have it every day. We need a change for this routine, I feel.
Now, we are living lives in such a way that we never think about ourselves. We just live life as it is. It’s perfectly fine for everyone, I know. But, think about the positive energy that solitude gives us, spending time with our inner self, getting to know its requirements, lending an ear to hear everything it has stored for us in the day to day lives for the ability to satisfy our needs.
The main reason which I spot is our mobile phones. We love our mobile phones more than ourselves and this is why we allocate time for mobile phones than to our inner selves making them rule us which doesn’t allow us to think about what our mind and heart require. We don’t know, because we are not concerned to hear what they have to say. Now it’s been quite a while since it’s been a habit for each of us to use mobile phones before we sleep. It will be the last thing which we see before we doze off to sleep. Earlier, before mobile phones became prominent, while we lie in bed at night we will think about our lives and that can be considered as a time given for self, by self to analyze its requirements.
I am not saying that each of us has to be alone all the time. It would be good if we could allocate some time, maybe half an hour per day, for ourselves in order to help us find our true goals for our near future, thereby helping us to live a life fulfilling all your dreams. So, the next time when we come across situations that need to face solitude, we can consider it as a cure for our mind and think about what can be done by us for ourselves.
Also, the tendency for us to attract things that are not meant for us and our lives is high, we feel attracted because of our money mindedness. Only when we think deeply will we get to know that there is a lot more than money. This tendency can be washed away when we give our self some time to think when, where and how to lead our life taking away the money matter.
Well, I suggest everyone have soliloquies at least once in a while to determine or map a few scenes of this drama called ‘life’. So, let’s begin to discover about the joys of Solitude from now on.